Tying your partner's hands during foreplay or during sex offers many possibilities. Handcuffs are part of the BDSM accessories that add an exciting element and make different forms of sadomaso erotic games possible. These types of sex toys are often used in BDSM or bondage games, but handcuffs can also have an added value for "normal" sex. So don't think that handcuffs are only used as extreme sex toys. Indeed, for beginners who want to add extra excitement to their sex life, the use of restraint toys offers a lot of possibilities. The use of handcuffs can be a fun addition to your sex life and give you a lot of extra pleasure.
Experience the power over your partner with handcuffs.
The power and control you have over your partner by making travel impossible is very exciting. He or she sometimes literally cannot move and is completely at your mercy. Make clear agreements in advance so that you can stop immediately in case of pain and/or discomfort. It is important to agree on a stopword or stop sign (see our article on stopword in BDSM) and make sure that you can quickly release your partner at any time.
Wherever one person experiences power, the other will of course accept the role of servant/submissive. Remember to move from the role of domination to one of submission, so that you can experience both roles and experiment together with other ways of using handcuffs in the bedroom.
Handcuffs open the door to exciting games where power and submission are at the centre. For example, play a role-play, let your partner obey your orders or give free rein to your inspiration and create an exciting erotic game of your own. Handcuffs can also be used to experience all kinds of fetishes.
Experimenting with handcuffs and other objects of servitude
Alternative sex toys used to restrain your partner
In addition to handcuffs, there are of course many other bondage and SM items to control your partner. Possibilities are for example full height cuffs, ankle cuffs, adjustable cuffs, leather cuffs and steel cuffs. They can be used on the legs or ankles. If you want to add a bondage element, you can also use a bondage element such as bondage ropes, tape, bondage chains, bondage belts, bondage harnesses or a spacer bar. As they say, everything is good (or almost good) to tie your partner during a BDSM game session.
